Cool Ways To Make Your Speech Unforgettable
Well done! You did everything by the book. Your speech was well organised. You delivered your speech with absolute confidence. Your vocal variety was excellent and you used many facial expressions.
So
was it a good speech? Yes. Maybe it
was a good speech.
Was
it a great speech? No. Maybe it was
not a great speech.
Believe
it or not, it is actually easy to come up with a good speech. But the most
challenging thing to do is to write and deliver a great speech; a speech which
no one will forget.
The unforgettable speech
is a speech that touches people’s heart and makes a huge positive impact on
them. There were many unforgettable speeches in history like the speeches
delivered by Theodore Roosevelt, Mahatma Gandhi, and Martin Luther King. These
are just some examples (there are many blogs and articles online about
unforgettable speeches. Do check it out).
Well,
you don’t need to be a famous person to deliver a great speech. You only need
to be a great person (with a big heart)
to deliver a great speech :)
Now
the question is; how to turn a good speech into a great, unforgettable speech?
Here are some cool ways to make your speech truly unforgettable.
Speak From the Heart
Have
you ever lent your ears to a friend? There she was… crying her eyes out and you
became her shoulder to cry on. You could feel her pain and her misery. Without
realising it, you started to cry too. Why did you cry? You cried because there
were intense feelings. You could feel her emotions because she was speaking
from her heart.
So
what does speaking from the heart has anything to do with a great speech?
When
a speaker speaks from the heart, the speaker is able to connect with the
audience. The audience can sense the honesty and sincerity of the speaker. Nothing
is more captivating than listening to a person who speaks from the heart. No
words are more influential than the words which came from the heart. The
audience can be moved by the speech and interpret the feelings of happiness,
sadness or anxiety.
Be
passionate and compassionate when you speak. Say it with enthusiasm. Share your
life experience, your biggest concern and your true opinions with others. Be
inspiring to others that no one will ever forget your speech.
Tell Your Stories
My
late grandmother used to tell me stories when I was spending the night at her
house. I was just a small child but I could understand the message behind the
stories she told me. What did I learn from my grandmother? I learned that
stories are powerful tool in order to convey message. Thank you grandma!
Everybody
enjoys a good story which is why movie producers make lots of money. Therefore,
one of the cool ways to make your speech unforgettable is of course by adding
stories! The best stories are personal stories. By telling your audience of
your personal stories, it will help them to relate to your experience and get
the message across to them.
I
still remember a speech I delivered a few years ago. The title was ‘Reality
Check’. I spoke of how we should face the reality of life and move on. In the
speech I told the audience a story. I shared my own personal story of my
mother’s death and how I had to accept the fact that she was gone.
How
do you tell a good story? Be creative. Real stories do not have to be a boring
story. You can include some characters (based on your real story) and write a
well-structured plot for the story of yours. I think I may have to explain this
further in my future post :)
How
to make your speech unforgettable?
Tell a story and they will remember your
speech for many years to come.
Inject Some Humour
Don’t
you just love a good laugh? When I said you should tell stories in your speech,
it doesn’t need to be a sad story. A great unforgettable speech should not only
be inspiring but also entertaining. A good speaker will always add in some
humour in his/her speech. The audience will cry a little and laugh a little.
What a cool combination!
However,
as a speaker, you must be more sensitive when you add in some humour in your
speech. Do not make fun of others just to get a laugh. Some speakers made
mistakes by creating jokes about certain people. Your audience may not
appreciate such offensive humour and this sort of action might get you into
trouble.
The
most important thing for you to remember is…
Don’t
forget your punch line and neither will your audience!
Take Home Message
Your
audience seemed to enjoy listening to your speech. They were laughing out loud
and paid full attention to you when you were telling them stories. But when
they were asked, “what do you remember about the speech?” They answered, “Oh,
it was hilarious and there was a nice story.”
Was
that an unforgettable speech? I don’t think so. There is a missing ingredient
here. Without it, the recipe will surely fail.
The
speech definitely needs to have a take home message.
Take
home message is a reason why your audience will remember your speech forever.
They will remember how you made them laugh, how you made them cry and how you
made them feel. They will also remember how you changed their minds. They will
remember that take home message.
Your
speech will be the unforgettable speech.
Follow Your Own Style
Let
me first make it clear. I am not referring to your fashion style. Even though
it can an advantage to you provided that you have a good fashion sense.
I
am really referring to your speech delivery style. I often see some speakers
who like to imitate other speaker’s speech delivery style. I can understand
why. Most probably, they admire the other speakers and felt inspired by them.
It is fine to look up to some well-known speakers especially if you are new to
the field. Still, it is unnecessary for you to emulate their speech delivery
style.
Everybody
is unique in their own way and so are you. People will undoubtedly remember you
by your own style of delivery. Have confidence. Just be yourself. Your speech
will surely be unforgettable and so will you.
Keep in mind…
A
great, unforgettable speech is a mixture of many things. A great speech should
be motivating, engaging, humorous, insightful and one of a kind. Of course, stories, humour and speaking style
add these values to your speech.
But
in the end, it all comes to where those words really come from. Yes, those
words should come from that big heart of yours. As for me, I have always find a
speaker who speaks with honesty have an effect on me more than anyone else can.
When
you speak about something, you must truly believe in your own words. No matter how good you are in storytelling
and telling jokes, it will not give a total impact to your audience if you are
not sincere. Be truthful to yourself and to your audience. Be genuine. Be you.
Trust
me. You will definitely be unforgettable.
Written by: Intan Salwana Anis
@2017 Public Speaking Is Cool. All Rights Reserved.
Written by: Intan Salwana Anis
@2017 Public Speaking Is Cool. All Rights Reserved.